Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Chusok- The Korean Thanksgiving

CHUSOK!!!

"Chusok, also known as the Korean Thanksgiving.. 
 It occurs during the harvest season b.c. the farmers believed that if they would present their first batch of crop harvest or first batch of the farming they do, their year’s produce will be profitable and would not involve any nature’s calamities... So Koreans take this time to thank their ancestors for providing them with rice and fruits.
The celebration starts with a family get-together at which rice cakes called "Songphyun" are served.  Then the family pays respect to ancestors by visiting their tombs and offering them rice and fruits.   In the evening, children wear their favorite hanbok  (traditional Korean clothing)


and dance under the bright moon in a large circle.


They play games and sing songs such as Korean Wrestling,



Archery, singing folk music, and a game called turtle tag. (Turtle Tag is when a person will be dressed in a covering crawling around trying to catch the other people around them.)


According to, "The Three Kingdom" history book, written by Kim Bu Sik, in 32 CE,
the story goes:
... the king of Shilla, King You Ree, took women from 6 local towns and separated them into two groups. A daughter of the king was the leader of each group.
The King requested that the women make clothing to see who was the better at weaving. This grew into a big contest... basically, which daughter was better...
The women from the two groups took Hemp and started to weave...
It became this huge contest that the king then chose the winners..
The winners were then served drinks and dinner by the losers while the losers sang a real sad song.
The title of this song is, "Hoe So, Hoe So..." This song has a very sad and sorrowful meaning-- ( I don't have any clue what the song is about..)
Then.. somehow- this turned into Chusok... I don't know how though...



So Koreans travel home for this holiday- so the roads and all of Korea will be jam-packed with them (even more so than on normal weekends- which I have no idea how!!!)
So... for Chusok..
 I'm headed to Taiwan!!! wahoo!!! :)



Monday, September 28, 2009

Some real culture-- Korean baseball, a Jjimjjilbang, and Bulgogi

Thank God I got my cast off last week b.c. even tho it's still broken- it's healed somewhat and I can walk a little and go places and oh my- have a life once again!! Wahoo!!



So Saturday I was real productive... I went to the community rummage sale and actually grabbed some good practical things for my apartment- it was EARLY in the am, obviously, but well worth it b.c. I def got some stuff I needed. :) I went grocery shopping for the first time in over a month b.c. I could actually manage getting there! I went back to Itaewon for another chiropractic appt. and then went to a Korean baseball game!!
It was pretty interesting.. very entertaining. There was a male cheerleader that lead the crowd in constant cheers and guys that walked around with kegs on their backs filling up cups o beer! :)


 Koreans def take their time when playing baseball... it was SO long- much longer than a normal American game.

Afterwards, I went on the subway, by myself, to meet up with Berengere and go out to Hongdae (the happening university place).


After driving halfway around the city b.c. the cabbie misunderstand the location we wanted, we eventually ended up where we wanted and walked down the street drinking beer and meeting lotsa people to talk to. It was random and fun.


On Sunday we went to a Jjimjjilbang which is like a mixture b.n. a Roman public bath, Turkish sauna,  and a spa...

Tips for the JjimJjilbang (... I didn't see this before I went...)

A description:
"The spa experience in Korea is a way of life for Koreans. It is a place for young couples to court away from the gaze of parental eyes; leisure time for the whole family to retreat for Sunday afternoon or an environment for fathers to bond with their sons. It’s a place for the elderly to come and maintain their health and for those wishing to relax in the early morning before they prepare for a full day’s work. In short it is a necessary part of the culture for young and old. Spas are widespread in Korea covering every corner of the country and can be found in idyllic mountain settings or within an office complex building in the city centre.

Most spas have private areas for men and women, where every item of clothing is left at the door; this ritual of de-robing is itself a means of freeing oneself from the daily grind and into a peaceful zone of hot saunas and even hotter baths. These are very quiet places where remarkably few words are ever spoken. This is probably no surprise bearing in mind one is baring all."

Ok, so this is the process:
You walk in and take off your shoes, of course, then go into a little room where you strip naked and put the provided tshirt and shorts on and this weird funky (and small) hat thing on. So Berengere and I got real up close and personal from the getgo.



We then head to the first sauna which was the "Amethyst stone sauna" (yes, real big fat Amethysts lined the entire cave!! musta been pretty $$) We ducked through the little hobbit-like entrance (and no, it's not b.c. "Koreans are short" b.c. they really aren't) and laid down for about the 10 hottest minutes ever! Supposedly this amethyst was produced in the Ural mountains and it's a good mineral for the human body..
Next we went thru another hobbit-sized doorway into the "germanium sauna" which was not AS hot, but still hot indeed.. It was supposed to dissolve the sugar in the body to promote blood circulation and release the body's fatigue in order to get back to powerful skin. who knows if that actually worked.. i was too hot to notice.
Next we went into the big showering area where we stripped naked (getting close and personal once again) to shower off the sweat from the 1st 2 saunas only to then go into our 3rd sauna!!!
This next one was a "vacated ground earth cave sauna" that we sat in for another 10 minutes (yes, NUDE!) and it was supposed to decompose the body fat and make the blood circulation smooth.. however, I didn't feel skinnier afterwards, so who knows!!
We then took another shower.
We then got into a hot tub in the center of the room and waited to have our number called.
The elder Korean woman called on me, took me to this plastic table and poured cold water on me. She then took scrub brushes and scrubbed my ENTIRE body!! (Weird!!) She def. had NO qualms about scrubbing the dead skin off all parts of my body, yowza.
I was also shocked to see the amount of skin that came off- considering how I've never had that done b4.. it was a lot!
Then I got another shower.
Back on the plastic table, I got a cucumber mask and oil massage- again, the woman had no qualms at all what-so-ever about my nudity.. wow.
After this, I took yet another shower.
Then she washed my hair and...
guess?
Another shower. ha.
Then I was done.
It was quite an interesting experience and I will do it again.. I feel amazingly smooth and clear skinned.. it seems to be quite healthy and real good for your skin..
But, yeah, you can't do it unless you feel real confident being completely naked in front of other people AND having an older Korean woman getting real up close and personal with you, lol.
wow.. what a cultural experience!


After that I went to the Penpal Bulgogi dinner


with my penpal- Jo..


Basically she was in touch with me before coming here and gave me tips or any advice, she coordinated purchasing some things for me and keeping them til I could get them.. she hooked me up w. my adjumoney (aka housekeeper) and she lives right above me. (not to her benefit of course b.c. she injured her shoulder - see her sling?!?... and now we call ourselves the "Crip Crib" b.c. both of us are the injured ppl. here, lol. But it was fun, none the less. :) Nice to see all the newbies that I had orientation with b.c. despite living and working in the exact same place, we NEVER see each other! so crazy.

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Friday, September 25, 2009

Blending cultures and interesting Korean legends..

I found a place in Itaewon (the Expat place in Seoul) that has clothes which fit me! Thank God! Granted, they are more $$ than I'd normally pay... BUT if I get a hankering for buying some outfits, I know where to go. (quite a small selection, however... understandably.)



I was talking to my Kiwi neighbor/fellow crip buddy about the differences between all the cultures here at the school- American, Canadian, British, Europeans, Aussie, Kiwi, Korean, etc.. It was interesting b.c. we could tell the Kiwis were the most laid-back, nice ppl whereas the Aussies and the Brits are more uptight/blunt/hard people... I still love em all, but simply in regards to specific cultural and personality differences... it led us to talk about the origin of our feelings towards other cultures.. like the Canadians' and Americans' feelings are ones of competition rooted from way back to colonialism; the Kiwis' and Aussies' are muy competitive which also rooted back to colonialism and the different ways their lands were founded: i.e. Australia was the convict colony for the Brits whereas New Zealand had more pacific islander/ancient Maris roots- there's a bit'o'tension there...
 
 also quite noticeable are the tensions b.n the Aussies and the Brits... now, not serious "I don't like you, can't stand you" tensions, but kidding around "ugh, I'm way better" type stuff... Naturally the Brits think they are way better than everyone b.c. they were the root of all that colonialism and Americans ignore everyone b.c. they know they are the best.. yet, everyone knows that about the Americans, therefore we are constantly shafted for bein' so arrogant. lol. For instance: 








It's just such an interesting mix and it's really intriguing to analyze. I can pretty much tell the difference b.n. all the cultures based on how they act.. it's funny. 


I saw this picture in a magazine which was RIDICULOUS!!! It's these two adjumas (old Korean women) sitting on a humongous stone statue of a penis with two tall stone penis statues behind them.. It's called "The Sea Cock". This was the "Pic of the month" in the mag!!! Basically, according to legend...
A long, long time ago a bay and a girl were dating in this village. The boy was a fisherman and one day he left his love on a rock and told her to wait for him to return. Alas, a storm moved in and the girl drowned before he could rescue her. Legends have it that since the girl died a virgin a serious curse was put on the town. So the villagers did what any good village would do, they had the boy ejaculate into the sea and erected a Penis Park for the girl. Ever since then the curse has been lifted and fish have been plentiful. 
Isn't that crazy?!?! lol. 

Thursday, September 24, 2009

"Only in Korea"- a slice of the first stages of culture shock...

Only in Korea are the cell phones real cheap and have TONS of features, yet the iPhone has yet to exist... Saturday I went to Hongdae (a posh, yet eclectic, section of town right next to a university)

and got a cell phone!! I wasn't planning on getting one b.c. my heart is set on waiting for the rumoured iPhone that has yet to arrive... but as time passed while my friend was signing up for one, I thought more and more about the logistics of it all and came to my senses that a free phone was WAY better than an outrageously expensive iPhone (if, and when, it ever comes!) So the plan is way different than in the US... I pretty much have to pay for outgoing txts and calls BUT I can receive as many as I want for FREE... AND I can get email on there... so I'm straight. Only in Korea... 


We ate at a mexican place called "Dos Tacos" where I had the best quesadilla in my life! (Beat that- La Napolera!! granted, no one will ever beat your humongous beers :) )


Only in Korea the Koreans can't do nails and charge an arm and a leg... the fake nails are muy $$$ and made of crap craftsmanship.... So, after dinner, we went to a nail place to get our nails done. Now this turned out to be quite the experience. You'd think, coming from America where everyone that owns nail salons are Asian, that when I come to an Asian country, they should be better... well, wrong. Everyone here actually HAS real nails, so acrylic nails aren't as popular AND their fake nail-tips are formed differently so as not to accomodate no-nail individuals like myself. :( So the lady took one look at my nubby fingers and her face was simply indescribable... she spent 45 minutes talking to my Korean friend that was with us about the different possibilities for my fingers... she eventually decided to go with "Silk nails" which is seriously a piece of silk on my nail covered with acrylic powder and then shaped roundly. This eventually hardens, but is WAY weak... Now meanwhile, I'm not going to say how much, but this was THE MOST EXPENSIVE MANICURE IVE EVER HAD IN MY LIFE!!!! fo' sho! Only in Korea....




I copied the following from a site that has advice for foreigners coming to Korea,
"Nail salons are as abundant as gas stations, and there are over 14.6 million registered vehicles on the road here as of 2005. The salons also cost a fraction of the price as compared to back home, I only know this because my Korean girlfriend gets her nails done all the time ;) 
Things you wont find easily: high end specialty items, usually required for hobbies and recreation. In my case, lot's of specialty camera and motorcycle gear is difficult if not impossible to track down. Also, if you're over 6 foot and have big feet, forget about finding any kind of selection of shoes, shirts and pants.







Hope that helps, take care,
Greg"





My thoughts on this, GREG, are that: 
#1. You're a man, thus you know nothing about nails. 
#2. This is the type of stuff I read prior to coming here thinking I would be able to find everything I needed, thus I got rid of everything I owned and only took 4 checked bags at the airport which I why I've intensely regretted that decision numerous times. Esp. when I want to buy stuff. ugh. 




Culture shock much?!? Lol... not yet!! (It's supposed to come later... egads!) 

Friday, September 18, 2009

Recent news from SoKo...



CGV opens world's biggest screen

The largest movie screen in the world opened at the Yeongdeungpo CGV multiplex in western Seoul yesterday.

(It's about 103 feet tall and 43 feet wide!! Yowza!)

'Many more people dying from suicide than H1N1'

Suicide is the 4th leading cause of death due to the rapid modernization and stress for competition which has led to a breakdown in family ties/connections.


(Esp. this year!! There's been something like 4 major suicides made public or something like that!!)


Culture Clash a Constant Struggle for Foreigners in Korea

For a Canadian English teacher, one of the most challenging moments of living in Korea comes every morning in the changing room of the gym near his home. The Korean men in the shower often glance at his lower body, and some stare with explicit curiosity at his private parts. He feels "like a monkey" in a zoo whenever it happens, he says.


(Yep... it sure is like this... not that I know what it's like in the men's showers... lol)


Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Taechon beach retreat and Korean traffic!




Sorry it's been so long since an update-- as I've broken my foot, I can't go anywhere... thus no new and interesting things have happened to me. Blech.

I did go on a faculty retreat this past weekend to Taechon, South Korea to our school's BEACH house!! Nice!! There was a lodge there and I truly felt like I was back home, camping, and having a good 'ole Girl scout-y time :) I couldn't go down to the beach b.c. then I'd get sand in my cast and blech about that... I also couldn't go to the campfire b.c. you had to walk up this huge hill that- well- I mean I have a cast on my foot, so obviously I wasn't going to be able to do that... but, luckily I had some friends that stayed around the lodge area and hung out and played games with me! :) Nice friends!
Now- one thing I DID notice was that even though the beach was like 2.5 hours away- it took us 5 hours to get there!!! I thought, "ok.. is this some holiday I'm unaware of?!?" NO... it's simply a Korean weekend!!! lol. The way it was explained to me was: The Koreans work all week long, so on the weekends they like to get into their cars and go somewhere... even if it's just to sit on the highway with all the other Koreans and never really have any time at a destination.
Lol.. I mean, I got to the beach house/lodge 2 hours AFTER the retreat part ended! lol... then on Sun. when we went to leave... another 5 hours to get home!! If anything, I learned to not buy a car, to not travel via car or bus anywhere throughout Korea, and to not plan on getting anywhere on time! lol.

Also, Korean rest stops are like mini-malls... there's stalls that sells things like pottery and stuff... there's a convenient store but then also a food court like thing (like in our malls) and then of course there's the outside food stalls that sell the Korean food like potato balls, octopus, kimchi, etc.. Quite interesting.

I have 12 days left until my cast comes off!!! Thank God!! then I get to go to Taiwan for Chuseok and def. have some more updates :)